The program of “breaking the relationship” or “the habit of parting” is in the head of many. It forces you to put blocks on the creation of relationships and provoke a break. Yes, it is possible to unconsciously adjust the situation in such a way as to push the partner off. The break in communication occurs not only in pairs, but also with many people. But most clearly this is manifested in the family. Curiosity in self-knowledge gives a key to your weak points, the opportunity to study, analyze actions and subsequent transformation. The main thing is to accept them! And it takes the most resources. But thanks to such experience, our relationship will begin to change. Now I have matured to voice my program. I had to disassemble it for several days: I always felt like a self-sufficient person, separate from loved ones. By myself. I didn’t need people. I even liked to feel isolated. Wolf. I worked a lot where, I talked with many and do not communicate with anyone intentionally. When a serious relationship appeared in my life, I didn’t feel “we”, only “I” and “you.” And during crises, I realized that it would be good for me to live alone. With each quarrel, the program strengthened my head and I continued to work, even when everything it was good. And "living alone = leaving, breaking up" is akin to an unconscious dream. It's like: you live and you know that it will all be over soon. With such an attitude, you involuntarily behave differently: a look, words, gestures - everything provokes a conflict. Moreover, people have a mechanism for reading emotions, energy, aura. We involuntarily read each other's information. And from me the phono is clearly not positive. Here you need a subjective understanding that it is only your problems, personal complexity, not a partner. Awareness of this gives an analysis of your thoughts and actions! Each time, you ask yourself: what will this gap give me? Will it be beneficial for me? After all, people are important. And what can we say about those nearby.