Hello! Thank you for opening my blog. I hope your first winter days are going to be fine. I am writing these lines right now because I want to share my thoughts with you… I hope you would not be against of that… Why are people afraid of having new relationship? That is not because they are afraid of a specifically new partner, but because they remember that there were many conflicts and difficulties that they could not cope with in their past relationship. And so the memory discourages them, tries to protect, warns against new possible painful attempts. All the same applies to any new actions. People are afraid of doing anything new because they remember that in the past they had difficult situations in their past. Therefore, every time we decide to act, we look at ourselves from our past subconsciously. That is why people do not set serious goals for themselves. Also they refuse to dream. How can they dream if they remember that in the past they were no longer able to achieve what they really want? Revise your past experience. You can replace all your bad thoughts with others, or leave them in the past. Make a list of what you would like to forget about yourself. And try to start a new life with pure memory and self-confidence. I wish you all the best! Kristina