Today in my head there is such a topic as: violence "for the good" You know, recently this topic has touched me more than ever, so I can easily explain to you what it is and how quietly it happens to you every day. And it all starts with simple words: “well, what do you think up! What started up - we want the best” “Causing good” happens when you tell your friends that “you don’t celebrate your birthday because of financial problems,” and in response you hear “we’ll come anyway” and spend the last money on the table. When your family or husband is “quiet” “help to measure” or “help to quarrel” enters your life, because we know with whom and how you will feel better, you are children and you can’t do anything sensible. When a grandmother, with good intentions, shoves “one more spoon” into her grandson. When you are forced to eat all the food from the table “because it’s not beautiful not to eat” When this Someone or acquaintances shove a piece of fried pork into your dog, “she so asked.” And when a dog tears apart from your piece and these consequences are not a one-time action, no one thinks. We shout at every corner that no one has the right to say how to dress, or to poke our ass in the minibus. We have learned the word “manipulator” perfectly, but every morning we do good to someone without thinking about the consequences. Any of your comments regarding someone’s haircut, makeup, choice of partner or lifestyle is a violation of its borders. Your rejection of the friend of the son or the boyfriend of the daughter, your attempt to "remake" the partner. I anticipate comments from the series “forcing children to study and forbidding them to try drugs also violating borders and violence.” You wouldn’t want to bring to absurdity, but in fact, yes, if it is not a threat to life, any interference is violence. Violence, when you force the humanities to enter an economic university, because “who needs you with your literature.” When a guy is not allowed to be with his beloved and stuffed into earnings. This is the highest degree of hypocrisy, for doing good is always covered by the motto "I do it for your good." This is not a blessing, but a Procrustean bed where they pull out the missing and chop off the excess so that “it is like everyone else.” Because there is no common good. There is individual happiness - but it, by definition, has its own. Yes, our children may make mistakes in some way, but it will be their mistakes, their own experience, and not our imposed good, from which we want to go to the hell window. Because further, this artificially created life will have to live not for us, but for them .