Very often we hear he or she doesn’t buy me what I want ... I want more attention or why I don’t have that coat or that phone yet .... or why we don’t do what others do .. Constant complaints have made not only women, but also men .. Very often in both of the couple there are complaints to each other .. For example she cooked tasteless dinner or he gave the wrong flowers .. And it sounds even very rediculous .. After all, if think about it, she had spent time in the kitchen to feed her man and wanted to make pleased him, and in his turn he cared about his woman and chose beautiful flowers for her on his discretion, because he also wanted to make something pleasant for his woman.. And what do we see? both wanted to make each other happy .. but as a result they both do not know how to value what they have, and claims and misunderstandings are obtained .. But really? Was it was hard to say "Honey, thank you for feeding me" or "Sweet thanks for the amazing flowers"? What is the difference in what form it is, if a person shows love, care and attention? Let these be trifles, but a person’s motives are to make you happy .. But isn’t this the most important thing? When a person wants another person to be happy this is love, doesn't it? Let your soul mate not always be able to please your tastes and desires, but you need to appreciate his efforts and desire to make you pleased .. I can’t say that I have a super life experience, but I have something and thanks to this I learned to appreciate "little things ".. To brewe coffee in the morning.... wishes "good morning" and "good night"... say "dress warmer", "take care of yourself"... to kiss on the cheek before leaving... to make dinner for soulmate... simple to hug when scared... to help getting dressed and much more .. Yes, someone will say that these are trifles .. but in fact these trifling are happiness, true love, true concern! And everyone needs to learn to appreciate it! Regardless of whether you now have your second half or not, I hope you find my blog useful! And you will always appreciate the efforts of the one who is nearby! Be happy!