I HAVE READ A BLOG FROM A LADY CALLED DARYA THE REALIST AND IT CAUGHT MY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE TALK ABOUT ....IF YOU MARRY A FOREIGN PERSON AND OF COURSE YOU MOVE IN TO HIS COUNTRY WITH HIM , YOU ARE GOING TO MISS YOUR FAMILY , FRIENDS AND EVEN PLACES YOU HUNG OUT AT...UNLESS YOUR HUSBAND HAS MONEY YOU BOTH WOULD BE ABLE TO VISIT AT LEAST ONCE A YEAR . OR EVERY TWO YEARS ? I AM BORN AND RAISED IN MEXICO THE LAND OF THE MARIACHIS AND THE TEQUILA . I BECAME A LEGAL AMERICAN CITIZEN BY MARRIAGE { nowadays i am alone, that is why i am in this site ? } I USED TO GO VISIT MY FAMILY IN MEXICO AT LEAST EVERY TWO OR THREE YEARS . WHY SO LONG IF I AM 28 HOURS DRIVE AWAY ? I WAS THE ONLY ONE WORKING AT HOME BECAUSE I DID NOT WANTED HER TO WORK..EVEN THAT I HAD A JOB .EVERYTHING IS ABOUT THE MONEY . HAD TO PAY RENT , PAY GAS AND ELECTRIC BILLS . GOD FORBID THE CAR BREAKS DOWN . IT IS NOT EASY TO STRETCH YOUR MONEY TO TRY TO SAVE A DOLLAR .WE ALL KNOW , NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE . BUT IT TAKES TIME .I SAY THIS BECAUSE SHE ALSO TALKS ABOUT WHAT IF THE MAN WANT THE WOMAN TO BE AT HOME ONLY . IF HE GOT A GOOD JOB , I THINK IS OKAY .BUT SHE BE BORING AT HOME ALL DAY . I BELIEVE IN MY OPINION THAT IF THE WOMAN WORKS TOO . IT DOES NOT MATTER WHO MAKES MORE MONEY AT WORK . WHAT IS IMPORTANT .IS THAT BOTH CONTRIBUTE TO AMOUNT MONEY FOR ANYTHING NEEDED TO DO AND IS MUCH BETTER RESULTS TO BETTER DEEDS TOGETHER. I DO NOT HAVE A CAREER DIPLOMA , , THAT IS WHY A REASON YOU SHOULD CONSIDER TO PROBABLY GET A JOB TO HELP YOUR HUSBAND AND DO BETTER TOGETHER UNLESS HE HOLDS A DIPLOMA AND HAVE A GOOD JOB ... I UNFORTUNATELY GOT MARRIED YOUNG AND STARTED TO WORK . THEN I GOT MARRIED . LIFE WAS SMILING AT ME , WHAT CAN GO WRONG ? ...I HAD A JOB AND A HAD A GOOD WOMAN NEXT TO ME . YOU JUST CAN NOT WORK ALL YOUR LIFE THINKING YOU ARE THE MEN OF THE HOUSE AND YOU CAN DO IT ALONE . NOWADAYS IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE ... I AM SORRY IF YOU DO NOT AGREE WITH ME . BUT THAT IS MY HUMBLE OPINION BASED ON MY OWN LIFE EXPERIENCE. OF COURSE I DID NOT PAYED ATTENTION TO MY PARENTS WHEN THEY TOLD ME TO STAY IN SCHOOL .....I THIS IS THE OPINION OF A MISTER NOBODY......ANY COMMENTS ?