In looking at and evaluating the most important issue is sometimes a hard thing to understand and apply to any new relationship we are attempting. I say this with open mind, with sincere beliefs of the core of any connection that must happen between people. The problem lies when one person just does not listen or even ask a question about something you may question or not understand about either a belief or statement made by your partner. I mentioned that I had experienced on this site many times regarding ignoring a stright out asked question in plain language, and I might have been talking to a wall. It was my mistake, which will never be repeated with anyone by believing that she will finally give me a straight answer. How can one make a decision that is right if you don't get feedback from your partner. No, it can't happen, and I no longer accept any delay in giving facts. So, it is in addition besides my illness that is terminal now that I will leave this site, but wanted to share the experience I had here. Don't let it happen to you, either a man or a woman, communication and understanding makes it happen, not the physical connection, it has to come from the heart which is only possible by sharing it all, no matter what is means. Sadly, the ones that need to read and follow my words and suggestions, are the ones here that need it the most, and those are the ones that don't even read these blogs. May you all that care be a major success here, it has been quite an experience in learning the culture of foreign ladies, many of you deserve much in your efforts and desires. God Bless You All ! And farewell !!