The first acquaintance, the first impression is often deceptively, everyone knows it. But you do not need to immediately judge a person by his appearance or the first five minutes of a conversation. Often people try to seem better, than they really are and go a little too far in the tales of their virtues. But this does not mean that a person is limicidal or selfish. Give him a chance to open up and then maybe you are lucky enough to see his real face. And let`s think, is it a lie, when a person tries his best to please others? To some extent, yes, because eventually all secrets will become apparent. But I think that this is more self-deception, if you do not love yourself as you are, then you still do not have time to start a serious relationship. You are not ready for them. You need to stop in search and look inside yourself, love yourself, accept your essence and not be afraid to reveal it to people. This kind of honesty often helps not to waste your valuable time. You will begin to pretend, put on a mask and begin to embellish reality. As a result, a person will fall in love with a picture, a fictional dream. Over time, you will get tired of pretending, you decide to show your other half of all your "skeletons in the closet", naively believing that a person will forgive you because he loves you. But the following happens - a person begins to notice that some changes have occurred in you. He will begin to delve into himself, thinking that he is to blame for your changes, or will begin to suspect that he was "slipped a pig." At the end, two broken hearts and unfulfilled dreams and expectations. Who needs it ? Why not just be honest with yourself and with others. Try it, life will become much easier. Love and strong relationships do not tolerate and do not forgive lies. It’s very easy to kill a person’s trust to you, but then it’s so hard and almost impossible to bring him back. He will say that he forgave but he will always remember that you betrayed and that deception can be expected from you. It is as if walking with a knife in the back that bleeds and interferes with life. Today I suggest the new life motto! Tell yourself: "I will never deceive you!" It will be the best first step to start this wonderful year! Be honest with yourself and others and people will answer you the same!