Hello to all readers of my blog. Today I would like to talk about my chat dialogue with a man from here. I asked why he was looking for a Slavic woman and why he did not like women from his country. He replied that "The ladies on the dating site in my city are GARBAGE." I was shocked by why he chose this definition. He replied that it was complicated for him to find a quality woman in his city. Further, I became very interested in what a "quality" woman means to him. He continued that low-quality women in his country are women that I quote from his words, "Fat, has kids, divorced, old, smoke drink, money problems, bad personality." OMG! I could not fall asleep after this chat. Yes, this man described almost the entire population of women in this world! What kind of woman does he expect to find here? You might say that this man is rude. But no, his profile looked interesting, and in the photo, I saw a friendly and kind man. Of course, I heard many versions of why men do not like women from their countries. Among them, the main thing was that women are more material and do not want to develop family relationships. But it was the first time I've heard such a weird version. Of course, this man is not a gentleman, but let's look at what he considers negative in choosing a partner. Many people have health problems that lead to weight gain. Women after 30 were usually in a failed marriage and had children. In Slavic countries, in particular Ukraine, people take loans and can not live only on their salaries. As a rule, a serious man will look for a woman about his age. Many mature men from 45 years old are registered here. Who are there too old to love? Many people have bad habits, and not everyone is ready to put up with it. But who is perfect? What about a bad personality? We are surrounded only by people who are our reflection. If we meet only people with a bad personality, then what kind of personality do we have? I hope you understand this principle. I understand that everyone has the right to find their ideal match. But let's look at life with open eyes. All the people are different. All people deserve to love and be loved. I often read books on psychology, and I can say for sure that we see negativity in others only if we have it inside. If we do not accept the flaws of another person, this means that we do not accept ourselves. This post, I did not write to make fun of this man. I wrote this post for those who are not ready to accept themselves and, therefore, can not meet their true love. Who thinks it's better somewhere, but not where he lives. Men seeking a perfect woman will always be alone because ideals do not exist. I advised this man to buy a rubber doll, because she is not from his garbage list, and does not even have brains. I didn't want to offend anyone. But be tolerant. Men, be gentlemen. Women, start to pay attention to what men say about other women. It is an indicator. Let's be human. Alla