I remember the moment when I became a person who is being CHEATED on! The strangest thing for me was that all this time I felt quite happy! My husband never stayed at work, was attentive to me and always said that he loved me. We raised our daughter together and I thought we had the perfect family. Our mutual friends said they were kindly envious of us. What hypocrites they were in the end! I remember this day well, the sky collapsed inside me, life was divided into before and after. Most people here will probably understand what I'm talking about!? When I got home, I saw an open chat on his computer, after reading everything that was there, I wanted to scream and vomit at the same time, my hands were numb from shock and a moment of confusion scared me. I realized that this is the starting point and only I can decide what will happen next! What should I do? This question was in my head for two days, I did not tell him that I know about his infidelity. I wanted to see how duplicitous and mean he was. How can he kiss a child's forehead in the morning and a strange woman in the evening?!! He behaved as if nothing was wrong, I was disgusted to see it! When I calmed down a bit, I asked myself the question does monogamy even exist??? Perhaps this is normal when after a long time together, he wants something new. A man is still a hunter and this is his natural need. His good attitude towards me and the child, he did everything for us. And I thought, let this be his little downside. But the thought of that other woman haunted me, it was just the calm before the storm!!! I think I began to hate him, and you will be surprised not about the fact of the betrayal itself, but for the fact that he changed himself! You are probably interested in the question how? He changed his principles, his choice, his path in life. And I realized that the victim here is not me!!! On this day, COLLAPSED HIS LIFE, lost all that he so stubbornly dobivalsya!! I made CONCLUSIONS for myself from this situation and I want to share with you! 1. If you change the – to part. 2. If you change the – to part. You don't keep a hostage with you. That's not fair. 3. If you are cheating, but are afraid to break up, which, in my opinion, is monstrous, then make sure that your partner will never, under any circumstances, find out that you are really cheating. Lie to the last and don't admit it even at gunpoint. And then leave soon.