I want to share my sad story. Today, I take this situation calmly, my pain has subsided, my feelings have passed, my mind has adapted to the new conditions of life and now I am in perfect order. But when it all started to happen to me, I thought I would lose my mind. Because my life has been turned upside down. Everything familiar to me, all my plans for the future, all stability, all order in my thoughts, collapsed in one moment. I experienced tremendous stress. In a small part, I can compare this with the situation when you clearly plan some important event, everything is under control, it would seem that nothing can change, but the result of which you expect to receive depends not only on you, but also on one person and he starts let you two down! It destroys everything that you so stubbornly sought, what you aspired to. In an instant! Boom!!! And everything is destroyed. You have a departure point. When you get to know each other better, get mutual trust and understanding, you go with the flow on the same wavelength, then more and more, you are completely confident in each other and continue to move forward no matter what, all the difficulties you can handle and you it seems that together you can turn mountains for a shared future. It would seem that it will always be so, you are one hundred percent sure of each other, but at some point, you begin to lose your partner. At first, you do not pay attention to this, you are looking for an explanation of what is happening, motivating your partner to have a difficult week, that he is experiencing a lot of stress at work, he has not had a rest in company with his close friends for a long time, maybe he just wants to to be alone, or he just someone was rude on the way to work. And so every day. But these are just the excuses that you seek not only for him, but also for yourself. It is at such moments that you are both to blame. In a pair, absolutely everything depends on two sides, nothing happens for no reason. You give a reason; he performs an action and vice versa. But when you notice that the usual rhythm of emotional understanding between you is broken, time after time “your” person changes in behavior, you begin to worry, to suspect something is wrong. Your mind is struggling at this moment, it rejects and accepts at the same time thoughts that it will no longer be as before, that the situation is out of control and you need new actions in order to understand what is happening. It would seem that earlier you could absolutely say everything to your partner and not think about how he will perceive your question, because you were sure that he understand you, and now you are looking for reasons and ways to find out the answer that concerns you, tactfully and accurately Awakening new, unknown emotions and reactions, it is as if you are communicating with an absolutely stranger whom you see for the first time. In the course of communication with your soulmate, you begin to realize that you are no longer close as before, you persecute these thoughts for a very long time, but in the depths of your soul all the conclusions have been made and the decision has been made, the realization has come that this is the end. Anything can happen, and this is treason. Not necessarily physical-love affinity with another person, this is primarily a person’s betrayal of himself, his own choice. His love has left your relationship. This could happen for thousands of reasons. There is nothing eternal in this life. That's YOUR man, turned out to be only temporary companions on your way of life. Gradually, you will learn new things about him, other sides will open up in his character that will turn out to be unacceptable to you. You lived together for a certain period of time, but in some life situations your opinions and solutions to problems did not coincide, you noticed that your approaches to the same things are different, it’s normal that you do everything differently, but at some point you are not at all ready to put up with how he relates to the common cause. There is nothing wrong with this, you can learn each other all your life, or you can quickly figure out your partner, but in any case it takes time. It is unbearably bitter to accept your mistakes, and it is very painful to lose your love, but this is only a new step. You cannot go further hand in hand, without emotional support your relationship is doomed to death, no matter how strong love is on your part, but you yourself will never be able to keep two people afloat. You turned out to be completely different and the one who first changed his attitude in a pair, the first to understand this and not arbitrarily began to move away from you and be cold. In him former feelings faded, he is no longer devoted to you, he returns home by inertia, he still has not understood how he should behave further. If you notice this, then it is better for you to be the first to make this main decision. Take the burden of responsibility and take the first step, break off this relationship, thus freeing you two. Accept this pain, but always thank your partner for your shared wonderful emotions, be grateful for the experience, do not blame him and boldly take a new path in your life.