Now I haven't been searching for long, in fact I am not really sure whether I want a relationship or whether I just want a regular muse, but one thing I do know is how Men react to situations. I have worked with many guys and most of my friends are men and they all have one thing in common, they don't like to open up. Where I come from in Australia, we are told from an early age that if we open up ourselves and let other guys see our emotions, then we will be perceived as weak and as a "sissy boy". Because of this we don't show our emotions. It is also why the highest suicide statistic is males, I definately should know, I am a 2 times survivor. If you want to get a man to like you, get him to slowly open up his feelings to you, because even though I haven't been married yet, I know for certain that a good marriage can't keep going without that mutual trust. But I do have to warn all women, you have to make him open up slowly, try and take it too fast and he will be insulted and it will come across as invasive, but do it too slowly and he will lose interest. As for me, the lovely young lady I have been talking to, I recently started to open up to her, and that is what gave me the inspiration to write this. I am not going to say her name, but if she reads this, she will know who she is and what I feel. The photo isn't related at all, just a nice area in my country.