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Key rules for effective correspondence
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1. The first rule is: "Correspondence with a man / woman is the same as with any other person." Be polite, be witty, be attentive, be interesting and attractive! Chat allows you to be as open as possible with each other. Therefore, always answer when it is convenient, but first we think, read and check what we wrote, then we only send it. 2. The next postulate that I realized for myself is that you should not be afraid to write first! It is in this correspondence that you try to be as polite as possible. To make a person feel that you respect him. Those. the questions “can you be busy?”, “maybe it’s not convenient for you?”, “when is it more convenient to write?”, “I think about you” will be relevant. Write the first message and then wait for the reaction. He / she will really answer if he is not busy, if he / she has free time, if he is really interested in communication. 3. The next call is "do not write thousands of messages per day," even if you are in less or constant contact with this partner. Some manage to write one word in one message in large quantities. Such “canvases of words” are absolutely ineffective. In my opinion, this is a thirst to capture the entire personal space of a person with attention to himself. 4. Do not be a “clever teacher”! Write something funny, show that with a sense of humor you are fine. Emojis help us, but don't go too far with them, either. Communicating with a touch of humor and flirting will indicate that you are an intelligent person who knows the taste in humor). 5. Oh yes! Tact! As in normal communication in life, do not impose, do not solicit the attention of a partner through text messages. If a man / woman is not interested in you, it will be clear from the rather dry, rare, short answers. Do not depreciate yourself.


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