I have been separated for a year and soon to be divorced unfortunately. It wasn't a relationship that was very accommodating for me as far as someone trying to control my life and such. I'm a very strong believer in free-agency and the right for someone to choose what he or she chooses to do. In marriage there are responsibilities and obligations for sure but there are also conditions that a persons needs to choose for themselves. I am very easy going and have a lot of patience and have a big heart. I'm looking for a woman who is true and genuine and down to earth, so if I splash a bunch of mud on her I don't want to see crying but I want to see her get in the mud and smash it into my face and smear it. That's the type I'm looking for no Barbie dolls...:)