Hello to all the readers! It is considered, that one of the most important setting for any woman is being a good wife as a maker of being a successful person! Every woman wants her man to be told – You are so lucky to have such a wife! That is why we put so much effort in our marriage, even if sometimes we do it wrong… I do not have any experience in marriage, but I wanted to share my vision on what does it mean to be a perfect wife? The "Ideal Wife" program starts at the moment of marriage and is further developed, covering all new areas: communication with the husband, life, joint leisure, relatives, friends, guests, and so on. But what is interesting is that completely different versions of this program can be “loaded” into the consciousness of a wife and a husband. For one man, a caring and understanding hostess would be ideal, for another - a faithful companion in his hobbies, for the third - his beloved woman, just being herself and getting pleasure from common life! There are many reasons for any woman to be eager to become a perfect wife – the desire to create a perfect image of a family for her surrounding, the fear to stay alone or the desire to start living fully only when she is married. I believe it is all wrong and the main reason should be the wish to meet your man and share your life with him! I believe you need to have your own vision of how you want and can realize yourself in marriage by filtering installations from the outside (public opinion, mother's experience or advice from friends). You should align your desires and aspirations with your spouse, with attention and respect for what he wants to see in marriage. You both should maintain a sober and objective perception of what is happening in the family, and be able to discuss the signals and situations that worry you with your husband on time. It is also important to be able to be flexible and understand that the family is a developing and changing organism, which means that it is periodically important to carry out an audit with the husband of what suits or does not suit the marriage. In other words, the determining factor for harmonious relations is not the “starter pack” of advantages and disadvantages, or even a coincidence of reality and ideal. Many of those qualities that men want to see in their wives can be brought up in themselves, acquired, turned into a part of themselves. The main thing is the ability of two different people to live in tandem in any environment, to keep within their union something more important and strong than external changes. I am very eager to start a discussion and hope you will write me, how do you see a perfect wife? Thank you for reading and have a nice day! Ekaterina