If you believe the common phrase, then love lives only three years. Someone justifies their unsuccessful (sometimes over and over again unsuccessful) relationships, someone sincerely hopes that this is not so, in fear of waiting for the three-year mark, someone proves with his whole life that this is not so. So how many years does love live, and can it be saved for life? If we consider the phenomenon of love and infatuation exclusively from the point of view of physiology, then the thesis about the three-year life span has its own truth. The basis of attraction and love are homons, they act on a person for about three years. Nature so laid down that this period should be enough to meet, like, get pregnant, bear, give birth and allow a new person to survive. During these three years, physiology works to keep dad close to mom. Because love is a feeling that is based not only on physiology, but on the conscious choice and desires of a particular person. We don't want to believe that we are just animals driven by instincts, we want to believe in the ultimate purpose of human love. And to be honest, I believe that great efforts can save love for a long time, but this is provided that you will work hard on yourself and on your relationships. Personally, I do everything to make my life what I want ! What do you do for love?