Are you ready to learn from each person, from each situation ?? If “yes” - this is the total trust of Life. Only in this case you do not have to decide each time, Life is for you or still It is against you. Otherwise, just worn out to differentiate. If you believe that everything in this world teaches you to become kinder, wiser, deeper, everything works for you, the question is, "is the Universe friendly?" disappears by itself. And then there is no one to blame, the total responsibility for my life, for everything that happens in it is on me. If the usual ways of interacting with reality (with other people with whom life brings us, with circumstances that cannot be avoided) do not work, I try others, not trying to explain to myself what’s wrong with them. The learning process is a continuous loop of feedback from who you are learning with the subsequent adjustment of your actions. It would be ridiculous to hear, even from a first grader, who would be asked: "how much will be six eight," the answer: "thirty six, I feel that way." Unfortunately, in real situations, people often act in this way. Life’s attempts to convince them of an accurate answer lead to a “desire to shut everything off,” “to escape somewhere,” because “people don’t accept me as I am,” replicas of reality are perceived as a blow to self-esteem ... If the situation is this - Life will try to reach out, the next level of awareness and development will remain closed. And - there's nothing to be done - it's a pity.