Remember the graduation period at school. I have never had more hassle in my life than then. After all, it was then that each of us made a choice for life; a choice that determines success or failure in the future, wealth or a miserable existence. Then I was only 16, and the questions about my true destiny were of least interest to me. The prestige of the profession and prospects is what stood in the first place when choosing a specialty. In principle, like many of my classmates. At this stage, the future of 80 percent is determined by the parents. Their finances, position in society, ambitions and "wishes" regarding the future of their heirs. But, having finished the university with parental help, you are left face to face with your own life. The period of fun festivities is behind, the last session was successfully passed, the diploma lies on the table. What next? "Is it really necessary for me to spend my whole life?" - in horror a freshly baked graduate might think. Over the years of study, he realized that he did not like economics, documentation, and all these dry numbers. He is drawn to art, to design. “To create and create again!” - this is how his soul cries. But the parental voice stubbornly advises to go for an interview in an audit firm and get a "cherished" place in the office and the status of a white-collar worker. A very, very sad story, which, unfortunately, is familiar to many. And this happens because a person does not know what he wants to do with his life. I will tell you 3 ways to find out your true calling: The first way: contact your inner child. Our consciousness is formed in deep childhood and at the age from 0 to 6 years it is not subject to the external influence of parents, educators or teachers. Does a child have a question: why did I come into the world and why am I here? Of course not. He lives and enjoys every day. Find the baby in you. Ask him what brings him joy. When does he feel happy? Who does he see himself in the future? Indeed, very often it is children's dreams that inhibit the further development of a person as a person. It is childhood dreams that can bring considerable success. The second way: to evaluate the existing experience and knowledge. Maybe you are a great psychologist for your friends or the amount of written material is so great that there is not enough memory to store on your computer’s hard drive. Or you are already doing something and you understand that you are bringing great benefits to people, although at a loss to yourself. You are an adult and for the time you have lived you still managed to learn something. Think about it. Evaluate your capabilities. Third way: answer the simple question: "If I could learn something in half an hour, what would it be?" As a rule, this shows what right now you are missing for happiness. After all, it’s not necessary to change your life drastically when searching for yourself, you can only add the missing element and this can change the situation radically. How does our life choice affect us? The negative consequences of passive existence are already described at the beginning of the article. I want to talk about what will happen when you decide to start listening and changing yourself. What happens when you finally discover yourself ?: -You will begin to wake up in the morning with a smile and do things that really make you happy, and not sit out for hours at a hated work. -You will gain confidence in yourself and your strengths. -Note how the Universe itself is doing its best to help you - Realize your talents and internal potential. -Happiness will not be rare for you and will not be measured in bars and nightclubs. But on any path there are certain obstacles that hamper your development. It can be different people. Not always only enemies and dependents. Often the closest ones do irreparable harm. It may be your parents who "know how you feel better." Your friends who are afraid to lose you the one they are used to. Even a loved one may not support, but resist any changes. In such situations, it is important to remain calm and understand what is more important for you - to remain the one you are used to, or finally become yourself? Remember that no matter what your soul is for, the purpose of each of us is to live happily and develop in work for the good of the world.