You see, a beautiful woman, you find her very attractive, yet you cannot approach her and talk to her. Or you stammer and stutter and make a complete fool out of yourself when you do. Why? Because you don't value yourself highly enough to think that she'd be interested in anything you had to say or anything you had to offer her. Because you have low self-esteem and inherently not deem yourself to be "worthy" of her. But why is that? She's a human being just like you; she eats, sleeps, shits, farts, burps, and wakes up in the morning, just like you and everyone else does. So why is the fact that she has beautiful looks affect you so much? You don't even know whether she's the right person or not - she might also be a terrible person, in fact, and you won't know that until you talk to her and connect! Would you feel more or less anxious knowing that? Saida