I like the concept that all events that happen to us are neutral and only we color them with black / white or gray. The world is not hostile to us and not unfair, but we have only as much as we deserve. From these thoughts you immediately cease to be a victim, do not shift the responsibility to others, instead of spending these resources on yourself, you change yourself and your thinking, you do not condemn others, but simply show by personal example how to act. Imagine how much energy is spent on discussing other people, on gossip, envy, on the feeling of resentment and injustice, we blame everyone: the state, parents, friends ... and wait for them all and the whole world to adapt to us, and then, finally, we will be happy. But something tells me that this is utopia. Then, perhaps, it is still worth looking inside ourselves and finding personal happiness and the causes of personal ills there? Yana