My dear reader, are you well I hope? There is not much happening in my life these days. But I had an interesting phone talk with my friend today. She is my best friend and we know each other since school. What thing can 2 women discuss? We talked about the love of course! And she asked me about a thing which brought lots of different thoughts to my mind. She asked me about love…and pain. Do you know why? That’s because these 2 things are connected. According to the opinion of many people. They think that love may hurt sometimes. And my friend asked me about why people search for it if it hurts? It's not normal to look for pain. I needed a few minutes to think of words she said. I know she is right but…(there is “BUT” always isn’t it?). I think that love hurts if you love the wrong person. It’s a person who doesn’t respect you, who doesn’t care about your feelings, who are selfish and want to receive only. Each of us had a relationship with this type of person. Even if it was just once. It's an unforgettable experience. But it’s a lesson we should learn. And we should not make a mistake next time. We should know partner well to see if it’s a right person. If we will feel pure love then it will never hurt. Pure love to the right partner it’s a huge gift. Will it hurt? Never. So we come to the conclusion that if love hurts then you chose a wrong partner. I wish you will find the right partner and build a lifetime relationship. The best is yet to come.