Compliments about my appearance often tell me, and relatives and friends ask why you are still alone? Why if a girl is attractive, people think that she is successful in her personal life and can choose among crowds of fans? I will surprise you and say that this is not so .. I know many beautiful women and men who are lonely .. But why? There are several reasons for this, I would say misconceptions that prevent from finding the soulmate. 1. The stereotype that beauties are in demand scares. To get rejected by a woman is a very common male fear, and many prefer to simply retreat, admiring a beautiful woman from afar, than fail. 2. Another stereotype is that the beauties have high standards, and not every man corresponds to them. 3. Beauty is often associated with frivolity. A man initially does not take relations with such a girl seriously, assigning her the role of an eternal girlfriend or lover. But these are all stereotypes, people are different, and if everyone is hanged the same labels, this often leads to loneliness. Also, self-doubt often interferes. Oddly enough, beautiful women are often embarrassed by their beauty, believing (and not without reason) that men are only interested in their appearance, and nobody needs their inner world, interests and hobbies ... I often encounter these in my life .. But I also want to say that I’m not proud of my appearance, I’m proud of my kind heart and good education .. And I want to advise you not to look at the girl’s appearance, is it beautiful or not much, but to see if her soul is empty .. Find out the person soul, and only so You will see its true beauty. Don't make decision with appearance if you don't know person.