I have a friend who, looking at herself in the mirror, likes to repeat: "Who will get such beauty!" ⠀ She considers herself both smart and beautiful. Although it is very far from the canons of classical beauty, it does not have diplomas of higher education. But self-confidence is so strong that it is sometimes striking in scope. ⠀ Wherever we go, she will certainly be in the spotlight, she will definitely get to know each other and talk. ⠀ She is not shy about singing, dancing, joking, expressing herself in any company. The same thing happens with interviews. True, she doesn’t sing and dance there, but she always says: “We will promote, attract, promote, capture, and manage.” ⠀ Sometimes I tell her: "Kira, take off the crown. Have you seen yourself in the mirror?" ⠀ To which she replies: "I saw. And what will I tell you, every year I am getting better and more beautiful!" ⠀ Such reinforced concrete self-confidence. ⠀ It is believed that for a good adaptation to life in society-undefined self-esteem should be adequate, not overstated and not underestimated. ⠀ But sometimes it seems to me that it is better to have a slightly overestimated self-esteem. ⠀ Because confident behavior sometimes has a striking effect on people around you. It helps to see beauty where there are no ideal forms, arouses genuine interest in a person. I would like to solve the riddle: "How does a person manage, without the nature of some outstanding abilities and data, to attract attention and influence people?" ⠀ Kira likes to repeat: "I'm beautiful enough to like the men who like me. And smart enough to take on the projects that offer me." ⠀ The main secret of Kira’s confidence is that she focuses on her strengths and strengths, rather than focusing on flaws. ⠀ In myself, I also try to develop and strengthen this habit and recommend it to you. ⠀ I also recommend to all those who are unsure to watch the film "I Feel Pretty" There is much to learn from the main character. My dear reader, what friends surround you and how you spend time. I hope you enjoyed my blog and are looking forward to the my next article.