I want a relationship where the guy helps me get better mentally and physically. Make me feel special like I’m worth it, and take me to the gym. Help me better myself and I will love him. I want to be with someone who loves Christmas as much as I do. Not the presents as much. More the spirit and carols and family time and decorating and fireworks. There is nothing better then Christmas. I don’t want a man to obey me, I want him to listen and be willing to work with me because he respects me and wants to be a part of my life. I’m willing to do the same because it’s only fair. I want a real man. Not a “nice guy” who just kisses my A or a “bad boy” who is the embodiment of reckless immaturity. I want a real man who respects me, challenges me, and doesn’t need me but wants me. I want a man who can make me smile everyday and just make me feel special. I don’t care about “swag”, six-pack or D size. I just want a nice, funny man… Where did they go? The best love is the one that makes you a better person, without changing you into someone other than yourself. I don’t consider myself hot or gorgeous. I don’t have an amazing figure. I’m far from being considered a model but, I’m me. I eat food, I have curves, I carry a little more weight than I should, I have scars, I have a history, some people love me, some like me, some cant stand me. I have done good, I have done bad. I go without makeup. I’m random and crazy. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not. I am who I am, you can take me or leave me. I wont change for nobody. When I love you, I do it with all my heart. I make no apologies for the way I am. I am a woman. Strong and proud. And what woman do you want?) Share with me) Sonya