I would like to start by saying: I will be writing my own thoughts and opinions from own life experiences. If you resonate with what I am writing great, if you feel insulted or judged well that's your problem to look at. Decided to do this because of the amount of emails and chat requests. The topics discussed and the need for answers that cannot be conveyed in these short communications. Might be surprised to know I don't have much experience with being in a relationship with a lady. I think women fall in love easier then men. Maybe I'm too picky. I had an opportunity in my high school days to have a girl friend. We both went alone to graduation dance, knowing her from Croatian church asked her for a dance. Didn't realize she had a thing for me. We did not exchange phone numbers or information. We didn't have mutual friends or hang in the same circles so never saw much of each other again. I could have had a relationship with this person [even if it didn't work out] but never took it. Some of the ladies saw my face on the sites page and wrote to me, if it was all about looks, it would be so easy to find someone since I think most of the ladies are so attractive here. Probably because the care about their appearance and like to keep in shape by exercising, wearing nice clothes. I think its way more complicated. Some people are more ambitious and constantly strive for more. Others (like myself) just content with basic needs [decent paying job, some place to call home and food on the table]. What I am trying to say is it depends on lifestyle, what people consider fun, and finding someone on the same wavelength. I wish everyone to find what they're looking for in a partner. ALL THE BEST!!!