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Loneliness together!
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If there is no trust in the relationship, it is bad for both partners. The one who feels the deception, and the one who may not be too honest in love suffers. Correct the situation and restore lost proximity is real, but this can only be done through joint efforts.       There are many reasons for the loss of emotional closeness: from ridiculous little things to serious misconduct. Most often, family trust is killed:     Treason. You can forgive her, but hard to forget. Pain and suspicion return with every incomprehensible call, delay at work, non-standard act. Cheating. Even a lie for salvation, when it becomes apparent, guards a loving partner. Why cheat if any problem can be solved together. Worst of all, if the secret is not revealed by the liar himself, but by those around him. This is like a betrayal.      Unfulfilled promises. A man says that he is ready to get a star from the sky, and is only concerned with his own affairs. Verbal romance with real indifference undermines the foundations of emotional closeness. On the illusion of love, a lasting union cannot be built.      Broken dreams. Sometimes we fall in love not with a person, but with an image created by ourselves. And when this ideal guy or girl suddenly ceases to correspond to a fictional role, a feeling of betrayal appears. Relations without trust are difficult to continue. Have to drown out the pain and live as neighbors indifferent to each other or disperse. Or still try to regain the lost trust.     If there is no trust in the relationship, they are always filled with fear, anxiety, anxiety and pain. And both partners suffer here.       To return the joy of living together, try starting from scratch, revealing all the cards:      Talk to your partner honestly. Express your concerns, anxieties, splash out pain. See how he will react: is he ready to follow the path of sincerity, without secrets and omissions.      If you became the cause of the destruction of love, try to convince your partner that this will not happen again. Admit your wrong. But give only those promises that you can fulfill. Repeated loss of intimacy is even more painful.        Stop blaming each other. Confidence cannot be nurtured in scandals and squabbles.        Learn about compromises. Not all set conditions are feasible. Perhaps reality is actually not as bad as you think.       Do not humble yourself or engage outsiders in a conflict. This will only aggravate the situation.


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