This does not mean that the problem does not need to be addressed. This means that you must accept the fact that there are circumstances beyond your control. No need to accumulate negative energy around them, give up the accusations of others, from the accusations of oneself, from anger, irritation, and despondency. Forget about the past that cannot be returned. Focus on how to change yourself, your lifestyle or thinking, think about a possible strategy / plan for solving the problem, think about who you can ask for advice or help. It also happens that you can’t do anything at all and you just have to wait. Patience, by the way, like nothing else, tempers the character of a person! Then you just need to shift the focus of your attention and remember that where our thoughts are - there is our life! Yana