Phylophobia. Do you know what is this? According to the information I have, there are a lot of people who have it. It’s a fear to fall in love and to become vulnerable. You are afraid that a partner may hurt your heart and soul. You do everything to avoid it. And we come to an interesting paradox. Many of us want to fall in love but….we afraid of it. That’s completely normal to be afraid of pain and I can understand it. But it's normal if we talk about physical pain. I don’t think that we should be afraid of spiritual pain. I will call the thing this way if you don’t mind. You were hurt by love and it happened to me too. What does it mean? It means that we were with the wrong partners. That’s all! There is a good way to get rid of phylophobia and different doubts. I propose to look at our pets. Cats or dogs. I have a small dog and it’s just amazing to see how it shows his love. My dog does not expect to receive love from me. He does not afraid to show his feelings. He lay on my hand and look in my eyes. I see pure and unconditional love and devotion in his eyes. Maybe it sounds strange but you know what I mean if you have a pet. That’s the way we should act. Give your love to a partner, don’t calculate how much you give or receive. Love with all of your heart and stay with your partner no matter what. You will become happy and your dreams will come true. It may not happen today but it may happen tomorrow. Your confidence should be your guide and your hope will be the light.