Without realizing it, we strive precisely for such a relationship. Like in the movies. GIRLS believe that we will meet Brad Pitt and live happily with him. He will become our hero. Will be our perfect boyfriend. Without weaknesses and shortcomings. Are the expectations too high? We are not perfect, and in general no one is perfect. Everyone has their flaws. Even Brad Pitt. And there’s no point in looking for the perfect guy. Perhaps you should look for the pros in the relationship of an imperfect guy and an imperfect girl? And harmony... Is it there? When everything is smooth and calm in a relationship - is it harmony? Or is it a relationship in which habit has come first? Relations do not stand still, they develop. Relationships are like a wave: rise, fall and rise again. Conflicts are inevitable, they are one of the necessary conditions for the development of relations. Today you have a little quarrel. You both determined what you want, listened to each other and together found a way out and your relationship became even stronger. Harmony is not an ideal relationship. Probably harmony is a relationship built on love, trust, respect and the desire to understand. Love is different. All relationships are different. And, therefore, the harmony in each pair is also different.