Betrayal is part of our lives. It is omnipresent and inevitable. we all come across him: we betray, they betray us ... So said the great thinker Freud. Indeed, betrayal is such a thing that can happen to each of us at any second, at any period of life, even when you are not waiting for it. I would compare this with an accurate shot in the head, which immediately knocks down to the ground. You don’t have time to comprehend this, there is no time to bandage the wound and there is no time to look at the shooter in the eye in the end. Groin !!! And you're dumped, just lying on the floor. At this very moment it seems that this is the end, all that was before just a dream, it seems that everything that he built for years simply disappeared, was left behind. It’s hard to find the cause of the betrayal itself, because at such moments everything could lead a person. You should not believe when many perpetrators will be found during the clarification of relations. Blame, first of all, the one who committed this act towards you. Think carefully before forgiving the betrayal. Forgive betrayal? Absolutely !! "But only for your own sake, not for the sake of the betrayer. Daily thoughts on how to survive the betrayal of a loved one will not let you move forward. They will begin to poison your life, will not allow you to create new relationships in which there will be no place for deception. When you have been exchanged on someone else, when they gave a blow in the face - how to forgive a betrayal? Forgive, to live and enjoy every day? If a person who has betrayed you has a conscience, then she will punish him. Will punish more severely than your words, tears. Only conscience can plunge a person into repentance, it is impossible to hide from it, to leave. Surviving a person’s betrayal is not easy, but possible if you do work on yourself. And let the opportunity to meet new people, events, feelings on the way become a bonus of the trauma. Life has never stopped due to betrayal. Do not stop yourselves. What to do after all this? The chief assistant is time and the thought that after any storm the sun sets !!! It is also worth giving freedom to tears, in no case do not resort to alcohol, throw away all things that reminded him or her about "they"! Open yourself for new acquaintances and let your heart know that soon real LOVE will settle in it !!!!