Upon marriage, the newlyweds do not suspect that they are waiting for serious and responsible work, which includes everyday life, and as you know, everyday life, today, is one of the main reasons for divorce.
Not having time, young people really hurry to get to know each other in a hurry to sign, and this is their main mistake. At the slightest storm, a family boat can quickly sink to the bottom.
Family psychologists, for starters, I advise you to get to know each other, live together for a while, perhaps even give birth to a child; and then the picture is half cleared up. Everything else will be done by time - grinding in of characters; patience; understanding; gaining respect; forgiveness and more.
Harmonious marriage is possible only under one condition - if there is a joint desire in it to create an “ideal reality”.
Tips for building a harmonious relationship:
1. Give freedom and the opportunity to relax from each other. The partner should have a small personal space.
2. Marriage must necessarily have trust. Without this, it is not worthwhile to start a relationship, much less enter into a marriage.
3. Learn to hear and listen to your partner.
4. Be patient.
5. Be able to accept, understand and forgive.
6. Try to compromise in any difficult situation.
7. Looking at things is simpler and easier.
8. To get out of a difficult situation positively.
9. Respect the opinions and interests of each other.
10. Speak up the situation that worries at least one of the spouses.
11. Do not accumulate resentment so that this does not lead to conflict.
There is an opinion that the strongest marriage is a marriage of friendship. Perhaps there is something in it.
The young couple gradually gets to know each other and over time they understand that they are better off together.
Harmony in family relationships is not a myth, but reality, because in a cozy and warm relationship there is not only respect, but also love.
They say that love exists only for three years, and the rest of the time is a habit. True love does not disappear. She grows stronger and becomes wise together with the relationships that a man and a woman build from year to year.
If you adhere to at least half of what psychologists recommend, then you can live up to the golden wedding, and this is now very rare.