What will happen if there are no other options for preserving the family, such as forcing a woman? An obedient wife is the foundation of a strong family, they are sure. Only such a family will be considered traditional. Upstairs - husband, children and wife - are novices. However, the word "obedient" should strain healthy men. Obedient children and an obedient wife are most often people with a suppressed will. According to the logic of such men, a woman should be dense and bear all the humiliations and insults from a tyrant husband.

An obedient wife with a suppressed will is not able to give birth and raise strong-willed healthy children, is not able to give them at least an initial worthy education. Women with neurosis are fixated on themselves and they no longer care about others...

So how should one consider the position of a woman in the family?
The position of a woman in the family, her role of mother and wife are not the main issues before marriage. In the first place is the question of worldview and moral principles, moral values that a man adheres to.

Before looking for a wife, a man needs to clearly understand for himself - what he is from himself, what his real situation in society is, what he can and cannot give to his family, what he wants from life and from his family. A conversation with yourself should be extremely honest and long. This is the main condition. After such a “procedure”, a man will earn an internal compass that will help him find the “right” wife that would correspond to him (real, with real capabilities). This pre-wedding stage is the most important: the more honest the man will be with himself, the more faithful will be the attitude towards the family and the more faithful the steps will be to find his second half and create a family. If, in the bins of his conscience, a man reserves the opportunity to “go left”, or “divorce if”, etc., then such a conversation with himself is useless, and according to the law of the genre, this will happen to him.

But finally, the internal compass helped to find the right bride... What next? Dating, poems under the moonlight, flowers and ice cream - this has not been canceled. What next? Next, you need to agree on the shore before you set sail with your young wife on a family boat... This is a discussion with the future wife of key issues regarding the organization of life and raising children; establishment and coordination of priorities in the family, moral values, etc. How do you see your life together tomorrow, in a year, in ten years? Speak, discuss, reflect...

A man loves with his eyes. Rather, he doesn’t love, but wants, thirsts, wishes, and basta. Long legs, chest with a wheel completely cut off prudence. As the “main matchmaker” of the country said: “For many years of the program“ Let's get married ”a tradition has been established - a man ALWAYS chooses a woman who danced a belly dance or showed her long legs. Other pretenders are prettier, more educated, smarter, and kinder. But they shook “charms” in front of a man - and that’s all...”