When you meet a nice woman and you like her appearance,invite her on date-if the weather is bad,rainy,windy,better to go for a walk in the park. It will be good for you both to have a two hours breathing with fresh air. Coffee is not good for health- heart can beat fast and it can cause blood pressure,so better to avoid it; fancy cakes contain sugar so they can cause diabetes-better to avoid eatting them. No any wine! No martini! No champagne - you don't want her to become an alcoholic-you are caring! God save you to gift her any flowers-she can have bad allergy with pollen if you present her roses for example,she can start sneeze and cough. Talk to her openly and direct-ask her about her previouse relationships in details-how many partners she had,why her ex men left her and how she felt after this. Don't forget to ask her how much earns and what car she has. It will be also good to ask how much money she spends on food per month and how much he saves on saving. In no case do not tell her compliments - if you flatter the girl, she may increase self-esteem, and this is not good for future relationship and she may get proud.If you see that her skirt is wrinkled or mascara is smeared, do not forget to say about this:the truth is first of all and she will understand how attentive you are.It is very important to make it clear from the very beginning how mundane you are- no any romance! no poems! Only the harsh truth of life! The economic crisis in the world -and you are a very  frugel, thrifty person -let her have dinner at home! Pay attention to everything that she says - if she doesn’t ask, to change something- invite her to marry you urgently! If she is still with you...The same tips are excellent for women with the replacement of some parts .. 
Wish you luck))
Julia