The Woman is essentially the Moon. She shines with the reflected light of that luminary that has illuminated her life. Sometimes it's a father, sometimes a husband, a brother. The man who took place as a luminary. The sun that illuminates the life of many planets. And the moon as well.
I saw how a woman is transformed when such a man enters her life. When she does not need to fight for her existence, she can relax and shine. She becomes soft and feminine, and very attractive to other men. It is impossible not to pay attention to it. But she shines with the reflected light of the love of a man who gave her his light.
In every woman, such a moon lives. Each has the opportunity to accept and beautifully reflect the man. Not for nothing in Russia the woman of her husband called "The Light of My Eyes."
And no matter how much you train femininity and gentleness, a planet boy will not be able to give you the Light that every woman dreams of. He himself needs the sun. Itself seeks protection and strength in the outside world. And you can never ignite it. Only a man himself can do this. In His Inner Call. And you do not have the right to push him to this step, because all the Great is born from within.
And what should a woman do? Go to the forest. Swim in the river. Meditate on the sun. This is also a lot of beauty. And this is much better than throwing your whole life into the furnace, trying to rekindle something that is not yet time to burn ...