It seems that people communicate and everything is fine with them until the game turns on. And immediately a complete list of requirements is rolled out to each other: “a man should”, “a woman should” ... Work begins on eliminating the discrepancies between the ideal image of the chosen one and the real person. And after all, real people are much more interesting, but we are attracted to each other precisely for those qualities that we carry in ourselves. Where then comes the desire to "remake" a partner in the image and likeness of an idealistic picture in his head?
You can love a person just the way he is. You can let a person go if he does not suit you. Let go without crippling, without scuffing nerves. Release in peace. With its unique, unique world inside it. Without causing confusion and destruction to his system. It would be nice if everyone thought about themselves. About his world, about how to develop and improve it. And you can learn from each other the qualities that you like so much in your partner, you can share those topics that are relevant to you.
And after all, so little is needed for this: to be aware of your needs and take care of their own satisfaction. It’s easy and without aggression, without “you must”. You need - you asked. They took care of you - you thanked (a). And that’s it!
Just ask. Just to thank. Just to love. Simply…