Mom teaches her daughter to cook and do household chores, daughter learns to be a mistress. Perhaps this is the first skill of the wife: to feed her husband and children, to create comfort in the house when everything is washed, ironed and tidied. Does every woman know how to do this? No. A potentially good wife - not only knows how, but also loves.

Grandmother called her granddaughter the Sun, admired her smile, taught to be caring and enjoy life. This is the second skill of the wife, although many smart men consider it her main quality. Woman is a smile, woman is a joy; how wonderful it is when a woman is filled with light and love. Indeed, after all, it is the wife who first adorns the life of the family. From her mood and mood, from her attentiveness and responsiveness depends on how this life will be joyful and happy.

The third skill of the wife is the ability to be a friend and helper for the husband. Who taught her this? Maybe dad? Dad believed that his daughter must be smart. Being able to set aside one’s emotions, turn one's head on, think about others and answer for one’s words are the qualities of a wife that inspire the greatest respect.

Respect ... Is it so important in relation to man to woman? Perhaps this is the secret of happy couples who managed to create good and strong relationships. We all know that men fall in love with some, and often marry others. The ability to charm a man, arouse his imagination and passion is what relations often begin with, but only that woman who after that will be able to arouse respect in a man can claim the role of his life friend, the role of wife.

A good wife is always an attentive and wise mother. A woman is ready to love her children, no matter what they are, but it is important for a man that his children grow up as worthy people. And who primarily brings up children? Still, first of all, she’s mom. And if the husband sees how you fun and patiently solve all their questions with the children, organize games for them and reconcile them, teach them to do their own lessons - you can be sure that a real man will always appreciate this.

The next quality is a difficult, rare quality, but who said that being a good wife is easy? A good wife is a good organizer. Firstly, she knows how to organize herself. She has a business plan for the day, and in the evening the main things are done. Moreover, she has thought out not only family matters, but also everything related to her own affairs - beauty and health. She knows how to organize herself for charging, and relax during the day (oh, how difficult it is!), And lie on time in the evening. Women who abandoned themselves for one reason or another, after some time, cease to like themselves, and sometimes worse - cease to respect themselves. And then life with them becomes very complicated.

We rise above: if the husband is the head of the family, then a good wife is a hidden family leader who sets up the atmosphere in the family and poses tasks for the husband that he needs to voice and solve in a manly way. Family is a women's affair, and to think over all the main family matters is women's concern. The hostess of the house with the owner of her business is related by the need to set goals for herself. Maybe this is the hardest thing in the profession of “being a good wife”? Organize yourself, knowing that no one will ask. Knowing that once you can oversleep an extra hour, today and tomorrow. Or do not charge. And do not really strain - no one will notice anything right away, even you yourself. That is, of course, everything will become noticeable, but later - in 10 years ... Perhaps this is a small female feat: to do their work every day, even if not everyone will notice and appreciate it. But if you do this, you know how to raise yourself and your loved ones - they will take you seriously. You yourself will treat yourself - seriously.

Keeping a house, raising children, taking care of her husband and elderly parents, gathering friends and relatives, congratulating them on the holidays and remembering their birthdays is a lot of trouble at the hostess's house. Making pies when you know how to do it well and are proud of your talents is a joy. The same joy as choosing beautiful cards, having time to write warm and sincere words. Or, to bring home comfort, rejoicing that you have someone to clean up for, and knowing that helpers will come at your first call.

And admire the most loving husband in the world, whom you yourself have found and - only quietly! - Of course, she herself brought up. Have you noticed that with good wives husbands become a better character? A good wife brings up not only children, she will teach her husband to wash her hands and talk calmly, without screaming, even when he wants to solve everything as men are used to - quickly and forcefully. A good wife is patient. A good wife knows the magic words: “Yes, dear”, “Of course, dear!”, “As you say, so we will do”; after which the husband ceases to insist on his most correct decisions and begins to listen to other smart people. That is - his wise wife. You, beloved and wonderful, the most beautiful in the world!