Your wife started to change everything there according to her taste and started making renovations. She throws away your favorite armchair in which you liked to watch TV for years, she changes curtains, she moves sofa and says that she needs a new kitchen. She wants to change everything there without even asking you. What would you do? would this make you angry?
Very often an apartment of the single woman differs from the apartment of the bachelor. Women like to keep everything in order and they want everything to be as they like. But men don’t always like his. They don’t like when somebody come to their place and start to change something there. some men may not even notice some changes because they don’t care, but to some men it can be shock! To what kind of men do you belong? (smile)
Certainly, when I will start to live with my future husband I would like to change something in his apartment of his house. Anyway, I will try to make it better. Besides I like to do something about the house, I like to decorate, and to make it beautiful and comfortable. But, I will never do anything without consulting with him. At first I will ask my husband about what he thinks about this or that because we live in this place together and we should both decide how it should look like. If he doesn’t like my idea I won’t do it. why should I irritate my husband with the picture on the wall which he doesn’t like? I cam easily live without it!(smile)
Certainly, I hope that in the majority of cases my husband will agree with me and he will allow me to change something. But if he doesn’t, I think that we will come to some common decision. Maybe we will do one room as he likes, and another room as I like. I won’t make a big problem of this as many women do.
I just want the place we will live in to be beautiful and cozy to both of us. I hope it will be so.
Kristina.