By the way, this is a difficult question for me. Because in theory, I understand that everyone is now equal, and since men and women have equal rights, then both men and women should equally pay for each other in any restaurant.

Or you can say that a man, as well as a woman, can expect to be paid for it. In theory, this is true.

But I'll be honest. I'd be very surprised if it was a date instead of a friendly get-together, and I'd have to get my wallet out. Although I work and this wallet, even with money, I have.

It seems to me that everything is so because life has changed, and some traditions do not have time to change. That's why they conflict with each other.

Honestly, I would like to give up such traditions. Although I like this particular tradition. But the problem is that if I accept this outdated tradition and by default expect a man to pay (otherwise I will call him greedy), then I need to accept all the other traditions.

And there's a whole bunch of them. And not all of them are as nice as the fact that the cafe will pay for you.

There are traditions that a woman should know her place, that her only goal in life is to have children and create comfort in the house. If this was your dream, it's all right.

But I want more. I am not against family and children, this is very important. But I think it's stupid to think that this is only important for a woman. What is the truth, men are all such terminators and they do not need family warmth and comfort?

In General, I have a daughter. And when she gets a little older, I'll tell her that you go to a cafe and you don't have to look down and wait for your date to pay for you.

If everything is serious and you want a joint family, then he will still have a lot of opportunities to prove himself. And in General, to evaluate a man according to tradition, that he is able to pay for two cups of coffee-this is a so-so criterion.

Although it is difficult, I was raised according to the old rules, but if I was free now and went on dates again, I would like to be more free from these conventions.

I would try not to label a man as greedy. Probably, it would be an interesting world if you could safely invite a man to a cafe by yourself, pay yourself, and not press the weather by the sea and everything would be right.

Hmm.. What do you think? Men who don't want to pay - are they just greedy? Or is it just such a new time?