One of the most important qualities that each person needs to maintain and develop in himself is external attractiveness.
This causes a lot of controversy and is often associated with double standards.There are people who claim that only the beauty of the inner world and the soul of a person are important. Others pay attention only to their appearance, they believe that the most important thing is to keep up with fashion, that if a girl is not made up, then there’s nothing to talk about with her. J
In my opinion, both are distortions that only interfere with our communication. The truth, as always, is in the middle. It is important to engage in both external and internal, to look after both your soul and your body.
Usually I talk more about mental self-development, that is, more likely about the inner world of a person, and taking care of the body I take for granted. But, strangely enough, very often I see such girls who simply neglect themselves. Talking about this delicate topic is not accepted, but there is a problem. It is sometimes easier for a woman to say that she has psychological problems, and therefore difficulties in relationships, than to admit that she simply does not know how to monitor herself.
Some women are outraged that someone evaluates their appearance and sexuality. They want men to think about their rich inner world. But they themselves are usually very attentive to how a man looks