I do know what you mean and I try so hard. Some ladies are so tough though. They want gifts for a 'reason', Woman's day, birthday etc and, lol they become suspicious if it's simply because the man loves them and wants better for them, I know! I used to give single Moms with newborns, in my church, a washer and a dryer and 48 cloth diapers. All were a little suspicious and had unfounded fears. They had to learn, it was truly free to them, no strings at all. Many knew nothing, so I helped in other ways as well teaching them but never touching them except they had tears and sorrow, then I was as a Dad to them.
My Love now, oh she's so beautiful and wonderful! She's perfect for me. Once when I was very ill, she stayed on her computer or phone beside me the whole time. Every time I awoke in fevered state, she was there with me, Loving me caring for me like no other. I tear up every time I think of this. Do you think there's anything I won't do for her? No, there is not! I belong to her completely because I want her life to be better, the best possible now and forever and for her child too. I think I'm a decent person and she calls me 'Her Man', and by God, she is right! No one who loves like she does should ever be alone and I will end that for her. I love every woman alive, to an extent. My Mom taught me to do this and to help them all whenever I could. I believe that a woman is the purest form of art and beauty on this Earth, every woman, in her own way. And God made each and every one to be happy and I hope so much, that All of you find your love and your way. I wish all of you all the most of Happiness you can have. God blessed you all with Love, His Own! Find your Earthly Love, Never give up! It's up to you! You know this!
Love, Ray