Hello to all my dear readers! Today I have been inspired to write about being really ready to step into relationships and start something serious! Because even if you look for and expect new relationships, it does not mean that you are REALLY ready for them! Sometimes, it requires time and working on yourself, before getting to date again!
It is likely that in an effort to spin the new romance, you are thus hoping to get rid of loneliness or solve any other vital problem. Relationship for you is not the ultimate goal, but only an intermediate stage on the path to something more. It seems fair to every normal woman that salvation lies in love. Thus love in this case is nothing more than an application, a mean, but not an independent unit. Truth is one thing - before you get something, you need to work hard on it.
I think everyone knows this feeling: total loneliness. At this moment it seems that you are ready to give everything, so long as someone appears in your life who will solve all your problems with one wave of the hand. We can imagine our perfect man: handsome, smart, rich, and many, many more criteria that are as great as they are abstract. But are you ready for a real relationship, with a real man, and not a prince from your dreams, about whom you know nothing, except things he is ready to share with you himself? It is what needs to be considered before you start something really serious – you need to be happy and satisfied with yourself, totally comfortable with your personality, have your own circle of friends, interests, things that keep you busy so that you would not dissolve in relations and your partner and always remain attractive and interesting for him!
You should be ready at first mentally, and let go your previous relations, it will never be a success if you live in the past or impose your previous experiences to new person. There are no completely alike people or situation, so you should not try same models of behavior, but let go the past and look into the future only!
For men it would be also important to be ready financially and be able to take care of his beloved, pamper her with signs of attention and provide the family!
If you are not confident, you can never relax in a relationship. Do you really think that other person would love you if you do not love yourself? It will always seem to you that you are not good enough for him, not too smart, or have bad figure….
So look deep in yourself and ask a question – are you REALLY ready? If yes – then go on and look for happiness and if not - the task is simple: work on yourself to meet new love strong, confident, inspired and happy! I wish luck to everyone and hope you share your vision with me, what does it mean for you to be ready to start new life and new love?
Thanks for reading!
Ekaterina