DEAR Men and Weman..please tell me you really don't think this is a possible answer, SO I GUESS I NEED TO WEAR A RING ON MY WEDDING FINGER TO FIGHT OFF ALL THESE BEAUTIFULL WEMAN WRITING TO ME....Wake up ....Men.. flash a wedding band and see how seriouse a girl you get...I think it is rude to be flashing the ring on the left hand and ... more so ... in the pictures they send you ,If your in chat ,take it off... if you send a picture ...send a fresh picture without the ring..I understand some woman here are divorced and there are pictures of you from the past.Ladies want fresh up to date pictures of us men,So should us men expect much differant ,,RESPECT GOES BOTH WAYS..SERIOUSELY.I'm not sure about your thinking but and as far as most of the letters sent to me ,weman are always speaking about shortage of men in there town or city, how woman out number men in some cases..So hello00000.....This site does background checks to make sure the girls are single ...SO WHY THE RING,,,,only one thing rings in my ears .something doesn't add up...It all comes down to this you get what you except here on this site ,,if you want a girl for fun and virtual sex you can find it ,,want a girl for a pen pal..you can find that ..If your looking to find a bride and marry one of these beauties,,GUESS WHAT ..SHE'S NOT GOING TO HAVE A ON HER LEFT HAND...