If you find someone you like don't be so much in a hurry to jetset all over the world to meet someone you really don't know in a Country you've never been before. Writing letters and chatting on camera is not considered knowing someone enough to risk your life. Make the man come and see you on your own familiar grounds among people who know you. If a man cannot accept that fact then, a bell should be ringing in your head. Many men in the U.S and I am sure the same abroad are not responsible enough to hold a job or have sufficient income to support a woman. Many, and I mean many are surviving on food stamp, welfare, or some other form of social program. If a man cares enough about a woman, they will meet you on your own grounds. Don't ever offer going to another Country to meet a man. You are deeply asking for trouble by doing so.
It's a totally different world we live in today than what you might read in magazines or books. Thinks have changed, it isn't the same anymore. Too many kooks, too many without Moral standings, and too many don't value life. And trust me, I know what I am talking about. I live in this Country and I have seen the changes and those changes are not the kind of life you would want to be stuck in. First of all, a man who is serious in his intentions would want to know everything about you, your life, your family, and your culture, and he will want to experience that in real life. The only way that can be accomplished is to invest some time and money on his part. Those are the serious marriage minded individuals.
Stay away from traps set out by wicked individuals who are just interested in your beauty and your body. Don't you have enough of those kind of individuals in your own Country? I am certain you have. Then, why would you travel thousands of miles to end up with the same thing you could easily find in your own Country.
But you don't have to believe me. That is your own choice and let your conscience be your guide. Let the Faithful not be deceived by the hands of Darkness !!!