All my conscious life, I think that I should have an adopted child. Regardless of whether I will have my own child in the future. I will honestly say that I would even more like to have an adopted child. After all, the fact of salvation is very important for me. I am a healthy woman who is able to have biological children, but I am also a sane person who understands that in the world, in particular in my country and my city, there are children whom their parents abandoned. They are deprived of maternal care and a loving family. They grow along with other children of different ages until the age of majority, if one of them is not adopted by people who wish it. They live in a "children's home" or "shelter" for children. For these children, the basic conditions for life have been created, they are fed, raised, dressed. Unfortunately in my country, these "orphanages" are often deprived of good specialists. I had to be in such a place. I was in such a house as a guest, I brought gifts, toys and clothes for kids. Such institutions have state status and, due to small funding, "orphanages" accept help for homeless children in the form of toys, sweets and clothes. You can also come to the orphanage and spend the whole day playing with the children there, pay attention to them, go out with them for a walk. Any help is appreciated. I frankly admit that it was very emotionally difficult for me to be in a shelter for children, because so far I do not have all the conditions for keeping an adopted child and I can not adopt one of them, and especially all of them. It is very difficult to part with children after you spent playing all day with them, you saw their happy eyes, joyful smiles, they felt your love and care, but you were only a guest in their common house and now you are forced to leave on your personal affairs leaving them. Unbearable feeling. It is as if you are throwing them all at the same time. You promise them to return soon with new gifts, but in response you see dozens of eyes full of tears. I read that in European countries there is a slightly different procedure for raising abandoned children. A child abandoned by parents at birth, or a child who for other reasons is left without the custody of his biological parents, falls into a temporary foster family until he has permanent guardians or the temporary family after the trial period does not want to part with the child and adopt him forever. Otherwise, if the child does not take root with the temporary parents and does not find permanent parents for the probationary period (for example, this is 1 year), then the authorities will transfer him to the next "temporary" family. This procedure can last until the age of majority. On the one hand, this option is better for the child, because the likelihood that his new family will be higher than when he lives in a common "orphanage". All care, affection, attention goes to him alone, as a full member of the family. But on the other hand, he can be transferred from one temporary family to another, and so no one wants to be related to him forever. The child will become attached to new parents, and after that, he will be betrayed again. Maybe I'm exaggerating very much. But for my mind, the fact that people for various reasons abandon their children is very exciting. I am not indifferent to such problems. I want and will be useful in the future for one of the kids, who for any reason will suddenly be left alone. I will take him to my house and he will become my family forever.