Hi ,ladies and gents.
After one year spent on this site I have learned a lot. :)).
We are different characters .
I had no many chances to write first to a lady.
Maybe I did twice.
Why ?Because ladies sent hundreds of messages and letters each day to my account.
Some ladies are very offensive and from first letter they started to write about intimacy in details .
For me those letters are not sincere , so I am ignoring them.
Why you do this ?
Because you think that this could be a faster way to get the attention you looking for ?
So , my message to you is to try to be less offensive in your firs letters and show your real face ,your real feelings ,communicate your likes and dislikes , write about your plans expectations and your limitations.
Compatibility in a relationship is the most important thing, too many compromises will make discomfort and can poison a relationship.
Some people like to talk about dirty things and details about intimacy, is okay, they should find each other on this site and communicate their thoughts.
We are different, we have different life stories, different values and expectations.
Love should come naturally, not by changing your other half , or to demand something uncomfortable.
Searching is about to find a good match.
If we respect each other everything will be fine and nobody will get hurt.
Good luck in finding your other half ,and I wish a stunning summer holiday to all of you.