My first blog was directed to those ladies who did not take my silence towards them in chat as a clue I would not be replying to their chat requests.
Let me further add the point I do not reply at the very first chat invitation. I wait and see if my silence is understood. It is after being sent 5 or 6 chat request every day by the same lady I politely tell them I am not free.
I was raised to be a gentleman and be polite. I am not so arrogant nor conceited to think I am the only man these ladies write to in chat. I just do not wish to have a lady miss out on finding a man because she is to busy constantly writing me.
As for any letters I get, I do as you and delete them. I try my best to make it clear I am here for only one lady and do so in a very polite way. I just do not understand why so many have to respond so negatively.
As for why I even bother reading their response to my polite refusal to chat? I simply want to know they both understand and respect my wishes to not be contacted.
I hope this clears up any remaining questions for those who may ask me the same in the future.