The basis of a relationship is the Desire to Understand and Hear another, and not just to be heard.

If a person is interested in ...
⁃ prove who is right and who is the wrong;
⁃ dominate, devalue, belittle and humiliate;
⁃ manipulatively getting what He wants.
... it's an abusive relationship. The road to low self-esteem, loss of oneself, the state of a victim.
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And if partners are interested ...
⁃ to be comfortable for both;
⁃ understand and pass through another point of view;
⁃ find balance;
⁃ understand a loved one in order to further develop and grow together.
... then and only then a Healthy and Mature relationship is built.
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Yes, we think differently. But the result is only where there are Dialogue and Interest.
I know for sure that two people from completely different countries if they wish and search for points of contact, will find a common language.
I believe that this is possible. And that's what I'm looking for, are you?