Do we think about what in us reacts to others, and in others to us? How does my perceiving desire respond to another radiating desire? After all, in the end, there is nothing but this endless interchange between us.
Click on "stop". Suddenly all this fuss froze and it seems like something unreal, toy. You begin to understand that behind this game is what drives us, directs us, then subjugates us.
It remains to learn to direct yourself to this force constantly, at every moment, as the only faithful one that leads in the right direction. Surrender beyond all human understanding and reason. What for?
In order to exist above our egoistic reactions, in order to react correctly to each other, in order to accurately perceive our common desires, in order to eventually fulfill each other. And one day the Creator will be revealed in all this. Who created all this for our correct feeling of each other.