A strong person can be happy alone; a weak person cannot afford this luxury. The union of two strong is a doubling of strength and the risk of losing your separative personal strength. All of us, women and men, weak and strong, can vampirize on a stronger partner, assert ourselves with a weak partner, and learn, learn and learn again to build a harmonized partnership. Probably, the personal biography of each person knows both moments of regret about pride and lack of wisdom that prevented the building of a harmonious one, and moments of cowardice and weakness that prevent them from destroying the invented external stability, stepping on the throat of stable personal unhappiness.
Where is the criterion of Harmony with a partner?
Maybe an outside perspective on what we are building? Are we building one thing or are we pulling bricks each in his own direction? Are we building anything at all or are we while away our lives on frozen construction in anticipation of extraneous moral or material investments? Are we ready to upgrade the existing space to a palace or are we inclined to look for palaces already built by someone? Or maybe we build each of our houses on the "same yard", because this way seems more practical? Probably, there is only one criterion - this is our inner harmony. After all, only our relationship with ourselves we begin to build from the moment of birth, and only these relationships last a lifetime, and longer ... EVERYTHING depends on how we build these relationships - health, mental and physical, happiness, realization. Building harmonious relationships with ourselves, we, without unnecessary efforts, improve the external world, because only next to a happy woman can relatives, loved ones, friends, acquaintances and not very familiar ones be happy - everyone who is able to respond to the vibrations of happiness and harmony ...