PRYVIT EVERYONE . IT MAKES ME SAD MANY LETTERS I GET ,TELLING ME .THE LADY FINDS A MAN AND THEY ARE IN LOVE BUT THE FAMILY REJECTS HER . YOU FIND A WOMAN , BUT YOUR MAMA , YOUR PAPA . YOUR SISTER ,OR YOUR AUNT DON'T LIKE HER ...WAIT A MINUTE HERE. WHO IS LOOKING FOR LOVE YOU OR YOUR FAMILY ? IF A MAN HAS PROBLEMS WITH THIS MATTER... #1. HE IS NOT MAN ENOUGH TO DO HIS OWN THINKING . #2... OR HE LIKES TO BE MANIPULATED BY THE FAMILY . ..#3 ... COULD BE JUST AN EXCUSE JUST TO BAIL OUT ...JUST REMEMBER .ONCE A WOMAN OR A MAN TURNS 18 YEARS OF AGE . IS CONSIDERED AS AN ADULT. HE OR SHE SHOULD BE CAPABLE TO DO ANY THING HE WANTS . UNLESS HE LIVE WITH MAMA AND PAPA AND HE IS WEAK . HE HAS TO FOLLOW ORDERS AT HOME...THE WOMAN OR THE MAN YOU CHOOSE IS FOR YOU AND NOT FOR THE FAMILY ... PLEASE BUDDIES GROW UP AND MAN UP . AND FIGHT FOR YOU HAPPINESS . DO NOT LET OTHER PEOPLE CHOOSE FOR WHAT THEY THINK IS BEST FOR YOU. DO IT YOURSELF