In reality, we are in captivity of the idol, whose name is "Happiness" .... We always prefer to forget what happened, to delete it from our lives. But more often than not, it is the past that helps to avoid these mistakes again and teaches us to better understand not only ourselves, but also other people.
When a person experiences a certain drama, then, tormented in his soul, he withdraws into himself and loses the ability to ask for help.
Your life experience makes you able to understand and help another person.
But what is the real situation? In fact, people tend to avoid problem people in most cases. You should not do this, you should not become indifferent, it is very important to have a kind and sensitive heart, despite all the pain you have experienced. Do not be isolated in yourself.
There is one life story that vividly illustrates this ...
A patient was admitted to a surgeon, a young guy who had survived a very terrible accident. In order to perform the operation and save the guy's life, money was needed. The doctor postponed the operation with the operation until a certain point and asked other doctors to call and look for the guy's relatives to help financially. By the time it came to the operation, the young man had already died. The main trouble here is that later the surgeon identified his own son in this boy.
Unable to survive such a tragedy, the surgeon shot himself.
Summing up all of the above, it turns out that in reality it is very important to step over your pain and get something useful out of it.
It is very important to remain empathetic and not withdrawn.
If your soul is that very seedling, then don't let it die. Find the strength to live on and don't give up.